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It’s Monday, one day after my long, eventful weekend with the Sweet Tart…I…We have been together now for 15 years and this have provided me with something to talk about…So today, let I will share…Just a little of what I have learned in today’s Dozen…
1. Love…Yes! I must start the list with this chemical inducing emotion…without it, I would not have stayed with the Sweet Tart…She would agree…as I always loved someone…and she knew who it was
2. Choices…We all have them…. we all make them…I’ve made plenty during my time with her…and let’s say I just learned which ones you shouldn’t make…
3. Talking…Me? Not talking…That’s not going to happen…but crow taste great sautéed in I’m sorry, and covered in guilty feelings…but hey a Doughnut have to eat right?
4. Memories…Doughnut’s don’t recall well…remember the oh, hole in the middle thing…but Sweet Tarts do…Don’t know if it’s the being stuff with fillings, or the rough handling, but either way I quickly learned…if I didn’t want to pay for it later don’t say it now…but, then I recalled #3..”sigh”
5. Fun…Must say I have had plenty of this… Fun meeting her, fun talking to her, fun playing with her, fun fighting with her, fun dodging her, or and fun..well let say “touching” her…for her pink icing is sweet and can be quite sticky…Can’t seem to get it off of me…
6. Procreation…Didn’t quite know how this would work, being a Doughnut and she’s a Sweet Tart, but I’ve learned after several “touching events”…that it could work and little Doughnut Holes are the result…
7. Patience…Don’t know who taught who this, but I’m glad I have this now, for waiting holding a purse (not mine) while she shop, getting fussed at or listening to her..sometimes in the same conversation, and doing the Pee-Pee dance, while she finishes in the restroom, will surly test what patience you possess…
8. The Look…It took a few attempts and epic fails on my part to learn what each one stood for…but I think I have most of them now.. A few like…the “what you looking at” look…the “ I’m wrong, but you better not say so” look…the “Pleeaasse!” look….the “I’m sorry” look…and my favorite.. the “I want you” look…this can lead to #5 but I prefer it to lead to #6…
9. Honesty…I heard that this was the best policy…”Yeah! Right?!”…Whoever wrote this was a genius. As I have learned the more I’m honest about myself , the better she is with me…try it with your Sweet Tart and let me know
10. Hardship…I have learned that not all hardship are bad…I mean who wants struggles, pain, and misgivings? …I don’t know people standing in line for this, but I must say that by being with her…it hasn’t been unbearable…
11. Commitment…I didn’t realize how I disliked that word until I had to prove it…who would think that would have been so hard, but it was..For who wants to give everything up to take care of others and don’t expect anything in return…Oh by the way! This is referred to as “parenting” if you didn’t know…
12. Don’t Sweat…Whether it’s the small stuff or something colossal in nature, Don’t sweat it…for if you do, all the sacrifices made would in vain…plus without deodorant on, you can get pretty ripe…and she doesn’t find this attractive at all…
13. Death…Since I’ve been with Sweet Tart I have experienced Death’s form in several ways…She has always been there and I’m glad she was a she proven that she is the one for me…

These are just some of the things I have learned throughout the years of being with her; I look forward in many more experiences and life lessons

Monday… and  a dozen baked…lets get started…Today was a typical day, work for several hours, thought about how I felt about things, but did not get a chance to write all them down, so I will share a dozen of my work thoughts…see if you share any other them

  1. Time sheet…Why is it that I have to be paid for the time I work and not for the job I do, I feel that I would be better compensated if I was paid for the happiness or problems I solved everyday…but what do I know?
  2. Cake…Boy, this pineapple cake I am eating today was really moist…Wondered how the Sweet Tart did it…You know she is getting better at this baking things…Could I make some money this way?
  3. Caffeine…Ahh! Now this really hit the spot…Does it make me an addict if I can feel the absorption of the caffeine? Oh well, got to be addicted to something, and it could be worst
  4. Bills…Don’t you hate when your in the groove and you remember you have not paid a utility bill?…Glad I was able to get that taken care of..
  5. Court…Well getting ready to alter someone’s family is never a fun experience…but this time I feel it will be a good thing…Glad I like the judge
  6. Duds…You know you look good, when the office fashion police makes a compliment…Damn right I’m sharp today! So step off
  7. Priority….You know they say your priority is not mine….Well that’s true…in more ways than one…So next time be prepared
  8. Emails….The cheap letter…so many hurtful things can be delivered in less than a minute, things that alter your perception of the world around you…They are great to use, but never for personal messages or something you don’t want traced..
  9. Friendship….By definition it should be self explanatory, but it’s not….for your ship is not mine, but I would like to sail with you one day
  10. Pork…Too much of a good thing will hurt you…especially this, but I enjoyed consuming it in all the forms presented during my lunch
  11. Communication…I did this a lot today and have learned that though I feel I’m decent at this, I often don’t communicate well enough with the Sweet Tart…I’m learning her language daily and will master this…
  12. Interns…I love the concept of  internship…the best form of free labor you can have…a person willing doing your work and the things you hate to do for free…Am I wrong for making the intern carry this, and drive here, or file this? Naw….that’s what he get paid for…oh wait!…he doesn’t get paid
  13. Lessons…Each day I try to learn a lesson, Today…I learned that The Sweet Tart is very linear…my work will never end….that there really ARE stupid people in the world who will not “get it” no matter how you explain it…that some people DO not need children and should be “fixed”…and not many people think like me….even if it makes sense to me…makes them wrong and me right…right?

 

 

Well these are some of the thought I had during my day…